In Honour
Because bonds don't end, they just change shape.
A five-week circle honouring ritual and continuing bonds in grief.
One last thing! Please read the full In Honour page before booking so you know exactly what you're saying yes to.
You’ll find further details about logistics, what to expect and FAQ’s in the booking page description linked above.
We want to make sure this space is for you, please take the time to read the below.
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This is especially built for the long-term griever because I am one. You get to decide what is a long term griever!
Years on, you forget things. Their voice, the exact sound of their laugh. But there's an intrinsic knowing of them that never leaves, and this programme is about resurfacing that. Sometimes even rewriting what your relationship with them looks like now, years later. That relationship doesn't stay fixed. It's allowed to change shape as you do with your grief.
The disconnect I keep seeing in longer-term grievers: you perhaps don't need acute, day-to-day grief support anymore. That part, you've likely already learned to carry in your own way. What's the tricky part is something else entirely: how your bond with them strengthens or weakens depending on whether you have any tools, rituals, or conscious practices to return to. Put plainly: For me, I don't need people to ask how I'm doing in my grief frequently anymore. But my bond with my person is timeless, and it still needs care, love and attention -consciously and subconsciously- that I want to make room for in order to keep living with grief. To hold both my eternal sorrow for my loss and the unfolding joys of my life that persist in the face of grief.
If it's been some time since you lost someone, and some part of you thinks you should be "over it" by now, that's exactly who this is for. Long-term grief care is genuinely missing from most grief spaces, and this programme exists to be the antidote to that gap. It won't rehash the basics or ask you to explain your grief from the beginning again. It meets you where you already are, and helps you keep flexing that muscle of staying connected, rather than letting it go slack.
We also aim for this programme to be for every kind of relationship, not just the easygoing ones. A bond that had difficult seasons, or was even genuinely strained by the time they died. A relationship you weren't "officially" close to, or one that had already ended. If it mattered to you, however complicated, it counts here.
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This work asks for a certain kind of acceptance. Not an acceptance that you're okay with your person having died, but that you're able to sit with practices like writing to them, reflecting on memories, or gently marking that they're gone, without it feeling re-traumatising. If even the idea of that feels too activating right now, this probably isn't the right time, and that's completely okay. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong, you’re listening to your capacity and that’s a good thing.
This work also leans heavily on memory, so it may not be the right fit if you were bereaved very young and have limited memories of your person to draw from.
If you've lost a child or a pregnancy, please get in touch before booking rather than deciding alone. Memory sits differently in this kind of loss, and I want to make sure this is genuinely right for you if you wish to join.
Built for six months on from loss, at the earliest. Earlier than that, our membership's support groups and circles are built for more acute, day-to-day grief care. If you feel strongly you're ready sooner, get in touch and we'll arrange a short 1:1 first, rather than a flat no.
My thinking shifted from 'What part of my mum am I bringing with me on my grief journey?' to 'How could I leave any of her behind?'
I truly believe my mum is everywhere, in everything, and forever carried with me now through my values, my joy, and simply my living.
- Eleanor, Mother Loss Circle attendee
The essentials
10 places only, kept deliberately small.
For these first two cohorts, pricing is £280 standard, or £220 for Grief Gang members - a genuine £60 off, exclusive to members and not a public discount anyone else can match. From the third cohort onward (January 2027), pricing moves to its permanent structure: £333 standard, £280 for members for good.
A bursary place (£111) and a fully free place are also available, by emailing me directly at thegriefgang@gmail.com rather than through checkout. This is on a first come first serve basis. No paperwork or proof of need required. If you're applying, I trust that it's because you genuinely need it and want to be part of this experience. Cost shouldn't be the reason someone misses this.
Please use in subject line for either bursary or free place “In Honour enquiry: Bursary” or “In Honour enquiry: free”
Every In Honour booking includes a free month of Grief Gang membership, redeemable during the programme or after it ends, plus a 45-minute 1:1 session with me to use whenever feels right, during the five weeks or afterward.
*Secure your place with a £50 non-refundable deposit at booking, then two further instalments: 21st September and 11th October, with everything fully settled before the cohort begins on 12th October. Or pay in full at booking. Full breakdown and terms and conditions shown at checkout so you know what’s what before committing.
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Mondays, 12th Oct – 16th Nov 2026
7-8:30pm BST/GMT (15-minute buffer applied if we run over)
Online, Zoom
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Mondays, 23rd Nov – 21st Dec 2026, 7-8:30pm BST/GMT. (15-minute buffer applied if we run over)
Online, Zoom
Not yet open for booking. If you know Winter is the one for you and want to secure your place early, get in touch directly at thegriefgang@gmail.com.
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Dates and day to be confirmed. Waitlist opening this Winter.
If you know New Year cohort is the one for you and want to secure your place early, get in touch directly at thegriefgang@gmail.com.
In Honour is a five-week live virtual circle for continuing bonds in grief. This is a programme to support you in learning and uncovering how you stay connected to the people you’ve loved and lost. A space to discover the small but mighty ways we carry that connection forward in everyday life, in existing and newfound ways. Our three main pillars to guide our work and time together as a group are storytelling, ritual and reflection. The act of continuing bonds and curating ritual in our lives with grief is not rocket science and is something we all deserve , and dare I say need, to live alongside our losses.
Built through seven years of community work and holding grief spaces through The Grief Gang, In Honour can be the starting point of a lifelong practice: staying connected to the people we've lost, on purpose, for good.
Read In Honour’s full story, our ethos and who this programme is and isn’t for here: thegriefgang.com/in-honour
Details:
DATES: Every Monday evening starting from 12th October through to 16th November. Five live sessions (12, 19, 26 Oct, 9, 16 Nov) (One bonus self-paced week on 2 November, not counted as one of the five sessions)
TIMES:19:00–20:30 BST/GMT - we may add a 15 minute buffer in case we run over some weeks. (The clocks change during this group’s time together, please check accordingly if you are joining from outside the United Kingdom).
WHERE: Online, Zoom. You will receive joining information 1 week prior to the group starting.
CAPACITY:10 places only. 1 bursary and 1 free of charge space available. Find information on how to access either bursary or FOC space here.
Pricing:
For our first two cohorts (Autumn and Winter) pricing is £280 standard.
£220 for Grief Gang members (Find your code in membership platform homepage and enter your code at checkout).
Pay in full, or secure your place with a £50 non-refundable deposit and split remaining balance into 2 payments (Deadline for split payment plan for this group is 14th September). Full payment plan and terms shown at checkout.
What’s included:
Five live week sessions guided by Amber Jeffrey, Founder of Grief Gang. Intimate group experience where everyone gets a chance to speak, share and contribute. This is an interactive programme
All sessions are carefully curated through the lens of our three pillars: storytelling, ritual and reflection. Expect creative tasks and activities (nothing too rigorous, we’ve all got busy lives!), ritual exploration and curation, guided conversations on speaking our loved ones’ lives and who they were and still are to us.
A free month of Grief Gang membership to redeem either during or after group experience has ended. Our membership is the perfect space to continue flexing the muscle of continuing bonds and connecting with like-minded grievers.
A 45-minute 1:1 call with Amber that you can take up either during or after the group experience has ended.
Quick FAQ’s:
Is this therapy?
No. This is a facilitated peer support circle, not a substitute for therapy or counselling.
Who facilitates this space?
Our founder, Amber Jeffrey. Amber has been curating and facilitating community grief spaces and conversations since 2019. Find out more about Amber here.
Do I need to be a Grief Gang member to join?
No, open to all. Members pay £220 instead of £280, that's the only difference.
Is this open only to a specific loss experience?
No, this programme is open to all. Find further information and guidance here on who this programme is and maybe isn’t for. You are always welcome to get in touch if you feel you don’t fit our guidelines but wish to participate.
What if I can't make a session live?
Sessions aren't recorded, to protect the group's privacy. If you know in advance you'll miss one, let me know and we'll figure out the best way to keep you in the loop. After each session the group receives a follow up email with information and notes on what we discussed or used in the session so you can catch up.
What platform do we meet on?
Zoom. You'll get the link and everything you need after booking and nearer to the groups start time.
Is there a payment plan?
Yes, pay in full or a £50 deposit plus instalments, fully settled before the cohort begins. Full terms shown at checkout.
What if I'm not sure this is the right time for me?
It’s genuinely fine to ask first before just going ahead and booking! Email me on thegriefgang@gmail.com and we can have a quick chat before you make any decision.
Before booking:
Please read our Terms & Conditions and Cancellation Policy , you'll be asked to confirm you've read them before proceeding with checkout.
Please read who this programme is and maybe isn’t for here before proceeding with booking.
Contact:
Contact Amber on thegriefgang@gmail.com for any enquiries. Find full story and further ethos details of In Honour: thegriefgang.com/in-honour